show biz wedding frown upon by fans

The wedding of Vivan Chow and her long time boyfriend Joe Nieh doesn't sits well for Vivan's fan, her friends and family as well the people who are watching from the world. How is it so? Vivan best known during the early 90s in some Hong Kong drama and movies as well as a singer for her sweet and youthful looks have been low key and together for almost 16 years, which was reported by some news articles. Joe was a DJ in Hong Kong, during the 16 years had "derailed" several times. He was always spotted by reporters with other ladies in his arms. Vivan was always forgiving however for the latest incident, she was going to marry Joe much to her fans, friends and family's disagreement. At least the fans showed it. Now Joe is controlling her handphone and no one can contact Vivan. So why did Vivan agree to the wedding? It would be unlikely that Joe would stop his "derailing" ways and into married life it would be a disaster for Vivan if it ever do happens. And if Vivan do broke up with Joe, most would agree that it would be easy to know someone much better than Joe. So I wonder if this is a case of love is blind or some show biz publicity stuns.